The first step is to be extremely honest with yourself because it’s not going to do you any good if you’re not. You need to find where your problems lie. Your problems could be that you are feeling uninspired, unhappy, unmotivated … Whatever it is figure it out, what is your issue? What are you feeling? Why are you feeling that way? Be clear on your bad habits like sleeping through your alarm, procrastinating things to the very last day or not eating healthy. No matter what your bad habits are even if it’s in terms of socialising, if your wanting to work on the relationships in your life or you're wanting to grow the amount of people you are around every day. The amount of people that make an influence on you or the amount of people that influence you. If you want to grow and expand your relationships, but you notice you have terrible social habits. Even that is clarifying that, this is where I’m going wrong! This is what my problem is! Like I said a good way to do this is to establish what it is you're trying to work towards for your life, and then take a step back. Evaluate what am I spending my time on? First and foremost, you can’t fix the problem if you don’t find the problem.

Which lead me into step number two, and this is always the best part about getting your life back on track and that getting inspired! Tying that back into the last point I just made, if you have no idea what your drive and focus wants to be towards. If you have no idea what goals you want to set for yourself, or what kind of life you want to be living. Maybe that is why you feel like you’re wasting your time, then look around and find somebody that’s living a life you are envious of.  I’m not saying envious in a bad way because jealousy that’s a whole other topic I could talk about in another post. I just mean who is slaying it at life? Who do you look at and go, ‘’God damn I wish I had that life!’’ or ‘’I wish I was doing those things.’’ It could Beyoncé, it could be your next-door neighbour or it could be living a happy and content life just being married with a family. It could be someone travelling the world, it could be someone in Films or it could be anybody. Find someone whom you say to yourself ‘’that is exactly the life I want to lead’’ or ‘’those are the morals I want to live by.’’ Figure out the life, the morals and personality traits you want to acquire. I wish I was the type of person who … and fill in that blank. Once you’ve come up with this alter ego, whoever’s life it was you were envious of. You could even start from scratch and create your own name, create your own alter ego and say; ‘’this is my alter ego, this version of me is the person who…’’  It’s a no-brainer really I know I’m going to do the things, that make me that person. This sounds ridiculous and far too easy but it does work.